I really hate being made out to be the bad guy with my children. The stupid games of planning a family trip on my Fathers Day weekend and getting the kids all excited about it is a joke! AFTER she plans the trip she then tries to “work” out a solution or a trade in weekends so that the kids can go with them. Here’s a solution! plan the trip on any of the 20 days a month you don’t let me see them! Who in their right mind does this crap to their children?
Now that she has done that, I am left holding the bag for this crap! If I say no, the game starts that “your dad won’t let you come on this family trip!” “If he loved you and really cared for you then that he wouldn’t take this away from you”
Why is it that I am able to plan ALL of my family time and trips around the extremely limited time that I get to see them and she pulls this crap on MY fathers day weekend?
Nine long years of these stupid games on my children. Will she ever learn that she is destroying our children before it’s too late?
I can only pray for a miracle that my dear children survive her bullshit.