Believing in yourself is far more important than anyone else’s belief in you.
As a child, my parents instilled into us to believe in ourselves and in our own abilities. These lessons have strengthened me and enabled me to accomplish many things that at times others thought impossible.
My love and passion for photography began when I was a very young man of 13. As I continued with this hobby, I ended up taking some amazing pictures and became desirous to copyright and sell them. At the age of seventeen I set out to publish my first photograph. Many people told me along the way, how great my pictures were but that I would never be able to sell them. How would a seventeen year old with no connections be able to pull it all together? I had been raised to believe that I could accomplish anything I wanted, the naysayers only fueled my desire to accomplish this goal that I had set my mind to. I was able to obtain a copyright, mass produce the picture, obtain a distributor and sell the picture, before my 18th birthday. Imagine the excitement when I was able to walk into the BYU Bookstore and see my photography on the shelf for the public. It was an exhilarating experience. One that I will never forget.
When I decided to write my first novel, I was again met with skepticism by others. I can’t even begin to tell you how many people told me that everyone wants to write a book, not very many ever finish them. Determined I set out to finish this novel. When I completed it, I was excited to have finished such a large goal, the first one took me a couple years to complete and edit. When I completed this effort, I received some very sound advice from a friend of mine who was a very well known and seasoned author, to take pride in the fact that I had completed something that many people start, but only few complete. The only persons opinion of the novel that mattered was my own, that there would be those who would find fault with it and those who would like it. The only thing that mattered was my belief in myself. It was my first attempt at writing something on that large of a scale, my friend reminded me that there would be criticism, which of course there was. It didn’t matter to me at the time, I had completed what I had set out to do and it was the exact story that I had wanted to tell. I self published this novel and my next 3 novels, specifically for my family and friends.
There have been many more experiences in my life from personal issues to promotions at work, to starting my own company, when the need to believe in myself regardless of whether anyone else believed in me made the difference. Life is full of those individuals, sometimes the closest ones in your life, who will always find discouragement in your endeavors and will create roadblocks to your goals. It is your belief in yourself that will create the strength to rise above the noise in our lives. There will always be those who intentionally or unintentionally hold us back from being the success we are destined to be, through their unbelief, which Is generally their own self doubt projected upon others.
Rise above the noise, believe in yourself and remove others self doubts in themselves from holding you back, you deserve to fly without the shackles that others would place upon us.